AU PAIR vs NANNY vs BABYSITTER - What’s the Difference?

Choosing childcare in Europe can be confusing, especially if you're hosting for the first time. Here’s a simple breakdown to help families understand what they really need.

AU PAIR

An au pair is a young person (18–30) from another country who lives with your family for a true cultural exchange. They help with childcare and light household duties, depending on your country’s regulations (often 25–30 hours/week).

✔ Live-in

✔ Pocket money (not a salary)

✔ Language & cultural exchange

✔ Light duties only (children’s laundry, tidying, meal prep)

Best for: Families who want an extra pair of hands + a cultural experience for their children.

NANNY

A nanny is a professional childcare provider, usually paid hourly or with a salary.

✔ Live-out or live-in

✔ Works full-time or part-time

✔ Often has childcare qualifications

✔ Manages full childcare responsibilities

Best for: Families needing consistent, independent, full-time childcare or someone highly experienced.

BABYSITTER

A babysitter is ideal for occasional support —evenings, weekends, or last-minute help.

✔ Paid hourly

✔ No live-in

✔ No long-term commitment

✔ Usually no household duties

Best for: Date nights, one-off events, last-minute coverage.

Quick Comparison: AU PAIR vs NANNY vs BABYSITTER

Au Pair: Cultural exchange + help with children

Nanny: Professional childcare

Babysitter: Occasional, flexible supervision

If you're considering hosting an au pair and want guidance, resources, or help finding the right match, we’re here for you!